A simple dictionary definition of oriented is to be intellectually, emotionally, or functionally directed. It is typically all three at once. Intellectually means there is an intellectual agreement to something. Emotionally means there is an emotional involvement with something. Functionally, means there is an established and tooted commitment to something. All of this without overt action.
If we speak of homosexual orientation, this is what must be meant by it. Faux theologians make a false assumption by comparing homosexual orientation to temptation. This is not scriptural by any definition.
It is true that fallen mankind is “bent” to sinning in any area and some in particular. Wesleyans have traditionally called that the carnal nature and have not made excuses for the carnal nature but have preached that through entire sanctification this nature is crucified with Christ. It is on His cross and is no longer any part of the Christian life.
The fundamental Wesleyan doctrine never declares that the carnal nature is eradicated in a sense that it ceases to exist. In other words, “resurrection” is possible. This is where temptation—something completely different—operates. Those who equate temptation with orientation or any potential to sin are practicing unscriptural theology. The faux Wesleyans who do that are trying to stretch a predetermined assumption over an unyielding concept of the Scriptures—they try to form the concept to look biblical when in fact it is error.
I find it interesting that there is such a focus on homosexual orientation versus homosexual behavior as though the two are distinct from one another. No similar comparison is ever made about hatred or heterosexual lust. But then we do have clear words from Jesus about those matters when He teaches that hating is the same as murder and lusting after a woman (the opposite sex) is the same as having actually committed adultery in one’s heart. In other words, you have done it before you actually do it; or whether or not you follow through. We may use other examples from the Lord, such as it is not what goes into a man that defiles him but what comes from the heart, etc. All sin starts in the heart. Like an unborn baby, it is a baby from conception, whether in the womb or out of the womb.
Shall we also consider James’ clear teaching about temptation? “…But each one is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desires. 1:15 Then when desire conceives, it gives birth to sin, and when sin is full grown, it gives birth to death” (James 1:14-15, NET).
By considering that homosexual orientation (or any other orientation) is something from the fallen nature we have two possible solutions: that person is either hopelessly condemned to it or there is a rescue available. Will a homosexual who comes to Christ be tempted to homosexuality? The answer is yes but it is not a kind of yes that excuses his former life. It is a kind of yes that says Christ is the answer. “There is a fountain filled with blood, drawn from Emanuel’s veins. And sinners plunged beneath that flood lose all their guilty stains.”
For Further Reference:
What Will Be Illegal When Homosexuality Is Legal (David Cloud, Way of Life)